“So, one finds a stranger in ones home while watching Television. Sometimes there are noises which just need investigation, but does one expect a stranger inside ones Home and Castle.
Being a martial arts student, one should be prepared to handle such situations, but in today’s life, this could also turn out to ones disadvantage, if the intruder is armed.
The intruder stormed into my husband – (and into the knife) holding on to several bags. I myself was just behind my husband when this person stormed past leaving a trail of blood. This, of course, was only noticed after the event.
Racing after this person, trying to stop him somewhere, somehow, seemed to be the only option, but he knew where he could get out. Unknown to us he had unlocked the back door with a large metal pin/instrument. That is where he obviously came in and this is where he stormed out, jumping down the upstairs balcony and climbing the fence gate – groaning as he did so.
The first realization to what had happened was disbelief. Doing the right thing I called 000 and mentioned that the person was injured.
Then all hell broke loose. Before we knew it, approximately 15 police arrived including crime Inspectors, forensic, helicopter with infrared lights, sniffer dogs. The streets were cordoned off and we were question non-stop (separately) for hours. Then taken to the police station and again were questions separately by another inspector. At this stage I felt nauseate and extremely tense.
My nerves were at breaking point. I tried very much to do some deep breathing, trying to calm myself which was not easy with all the going on and the sight of the blood on carpets and floors plus several items which were dropped in the rush by the intruder.
It was 2.30am when we were taken home by the police. At 4am we felt the great need of sleep.
At 6am the phone rang and the reporters (7 of them) were outside the door. And this continued all day. Every TV station, phone interviews etc. It was a big surprise to us, that the police had actually informed the media of the event. But this had its reason to alert the public to be on the look-out. All the friends and family (some we had not heard from or seen for many years) rang or emailed. The phone did not stop for two days and this, rather than making one feel better, caused more stress, as one had to repeat the story again and again, and was faced with the same sudden sensations of dread.
The shock and the harassment by the media made one want to hide. I did not want to go out at all. All I wanted was to make sure that everything, including us, were still safe. Edwin’s attitude, when moving down the hallway to investigate the noise, was extremely calm and composed.
The police was very thoughtful and kind, but had no results to report, in finding the intruder, which caused a great unease, as the thought of retaliation was foremost on my mind.
Knowing there was a master key in my bag, we needed to change all the locks. Before I knew it, our granddaughter emailed from Taiwan, that she had read that we had changed the locks. No one had told this to the media or anyone else. So, the media must have been on the watch and observed the locksmith van.
The carpets needed cleaning and all my cards, which one needs for ones daily life nowadays, needed to be replaced. This was a real hassle as everyone would know who had been through a similar situation. Hours were spent on the phone with interludes of music. “Your call is important to us-please hold”.
The days after the event, I felt very angry with myself. Asking myself, why did I not do this or that to apprehend the person. Having been trained in martial arts one always envisages situations where the spontaneous reaction should set in. The fact that everything happened in a narrow corridor in the dark and with tremendous speed, may be one excuse. Would I have reacted differently had I seen the person properly in a more spacious surrounding?
It is only due to Edwin’s training in aikido which made it possible to resist the intruder when he charged into him, as he is extremely unsteady on his feet nowadays. It is the ki extension which kept him upright and which he used while holding the knife.
I must admit that for several weeks I was unable to approach any dark room inside the house or walk along the corridor unless I saw a light at the end of it. I was amazed myself to what extend the whole business shattered ones nerves. I lay awake listening very acutely to every little noise and only slept after taking ½ sleeping tablet, which I am glad to say, I stopped now, knowing the intruder has been apprehended and put behind bars. The sad thing is, that there was such an exposure of the house, address, phone number, names etc. that one only hopes, that it keeps other persons with similar ideas away rather than invite them to have a go at the our place also.
Now we have turned the home into “Ford Knox” and are unable to enjoy wide open doors, as we used to during the warm summer days.
Why has the whole story gone so viral, my brother in Germany asked, as these things happen on a daily basis (break-ins). I can’t answer this correctly. Is it the age/ the martial training/ the fact that the intruder got stabbed? I myself certainly can do without such fame.
Things have settled down now. We like to live as normal as possible. Most our neighbors have added more security to their place in the last few weeks. It certainly is very sad, that one has to live like this, in constant fear that it may happen again.
I always felt that the ki extension which I trained in over many years has helped me to cope with lots of things in life, has given me confidence and hopefully make me react quicker and more productive in any future skirmishes.”
22nd November, 2012
That was a facebook update quote from Chicko Sensei, from the Fudoshin dojo in Noosa a few months back. Over the years we have had occasion to practice at sensei’s dojo and he was kind enough to visit us as well, he are some written up
More recently good friend of the dojo Craig Boyd, “Big Rock” sensei caught up with good friend of the dojo Chicko Sensei for practice. He was kind enough to pass on these impressions
Aikido @ Noosa- Road trip
Sensei Thom Hansen and myself went to train with Sensei Chico Xerri at his Noosa dojo on Saturday – If any seniors student has considered doing this and hasn’t been as yet, then I guess , if it makes you feel better I’m happy to tell you it was just OK ………. and you best stop reading now.
This was my second visit to train with Sensei Chico at his Dojo, The class ( like my first) was extremely enlightening and he and his students always make you feel most welcome and are always ready to help you grasp the lesson being taught rather than just getting bogged down in the technical aspects of the technique, and for good reason. Sensei runs his lessons at a frantic pace so no time to have worry about anything except what he was teaching, and there was so much there, so the lessons he was imparting are just starting to come into focus now 2 days later..
- Yokomen- lesson 1 enter blend and cut the hand ( nicely demoed with a bokken) – no collision just a new option for blending, he wasn’t to hung up on what technique you do from this, he showed about 4, he was imparting a philosophy of ” do what feels right at the time” with this entry
- Yokomen- lesson 2- enter deeply , stepping deeply and past the attack to avoid the strike , and move to an in close position past Uke’s centre line, then put uke back on your line and execute techniques- a good way to develop this was to do sankyo on the non attacking hand- there was a great technique I will be demonstrating to a few either fortunate or unfortunate people from this position it ends with a leg lock!- this position also lead into a “no technique” technique of pure Irimi – awesome stuff!
- Ryotemochi– we explored a now reoccurring theme of every art I train or have dabbled in, of getting Uke off line by you just moving your centre and breaking their balance, from there a throw was easily executed once you cut their centre or project through it- Sensei managed to make this look easy and moved probably no more than and inch or 2 – sadly I had to move the width of a Tatami to be able to get the lead and the feeling anywhere near to make it effective.
I’m sure there was way more to it than that, and now I’m wondering was lesson 1 just explanation for lesson 2???? But it was a fast paced class that had a lot of training and a lot of aikido lessons, so if Sensei Thom Hanson wants to remind me of the ones I missed or forgot please let me know. I will defiantly be heading up to Noosa on a Saturday morning again though, to train.
This past week I found myself in Melbourne for work and had opportunity to catch up with budo buddy Catherine Schnell Sensei at the Aiki-Centre, whom i met quite a few years ago during a Budo tour of Melbourne (See trip report Budo Bums Aikido in Melbourne here). During the course of that nights regular practice we shared some ‘conversation’ about Aikido. Schnell Sensei has long been a fan of describing the Uke-Nage interaction as ‘a conversation’ rather than winner/loser etc.. Its something that harks back to when Ariga sensei taught in Brisbane some years ago at the Aikikai, but I think her breadth on the topic goes wider, owing to her background in several other schools of Aikido. Schnell sensei opened the class, including warmups with some core strength components and we dialogued back and forth a few times, hosting a workshop rather than class, with everyone participating in the exercises. I think i let down a few training partners when i was paired up by asking questions of sensei rather than practicing 😦
For me it was a chance to learn sensei’s world view as well as experiment with body positioning for Kuzushi and using insights from the ‘toppling vector’ to guide how to throw Uke, – leading to the pre-formal conclusion that you must go up first to throw Uke down (See Aiki Physics II – Biomechanics of Throwing). This led to how does Uke respond? and in this context Schnell Sensei suggests the role of our core (Tanden) is in the correct and striving of an orientation and alignment that allows Uke to recover their centre and thus ‘continue the conversation’.
The development of the core is n emerging intrest of mine, as the biomechanics of throwing (the base, the topple vector etc..) suggest that this vital aspect of the power train from the ground out to the limbs is a vital component. Of course its nothing new, the martial sages and Kami have been saying this forever, but its somewhat new to me and in a different constructMany thanks to sensei and members of the dojo for such a warm welcome, again, and for contributing to such a healthy practice and learning environment.
That night I caught up with Maruyama Sensei and had some burning questions from the Byron Seminar answered as well as some bigger picture stuff shrouded in the midsts of time. Next morning we saw Maruyama sensei and Kondo San off on their way to Wagga (Yikes they nearly boarded a plane for Kickatinalong), before heading off to Geelong for the real reason for my trip with a busy 3 days including a workshop, bootcamp and conference on sports and technology – unfortunately there wasn’t a chance to show the Hon. Kate Lundy, Minister for Sport my modest progress on Nikkyo…maybe next time 😉
Thanks also to Asunta Sensei for some nice insights too with some Kenkyukai? inspired movements. Schnell Sensei is up in Brisbane for the Shimamoto Shihan Seminar in December so I’m hoping she can teach a little on Core development at the Republic